What do you do when someone misgenders you, tries to fit you into a box, or just generally buys into misguided patriarchal gender roles? Middle fingers UP. Let everyone know ahead of time that you won't stand for that. Wear it on your goddamn sleeve (or collar, or bag, or pocket).
Enamel pin with metal "butterfly clutch" clasp.
Black plating, violet enamel.
1.5 inches tall.